Never Run Out of Motivation

It's Saturday, and you're sitting on the couch binge-watching a show. You know you should work out—you feel great afterwards, and your progress is impressive—except sometimes it's just so hard to make moves. What gives?

"People say, 'I lost my motivation', but that's inaccurate", says Lisa Lewis, EdD, a licensed psychologist in Boston who specialises in performance psychology. "Motivation is an inherent quality inside of us, not something you either have or you don't". When you're feeling lazy, it might just be that what normally drives you is running on empty. Switch gears by tapping into another, more plentiful source, and you can get revved up for any objective in no time.

Motivation sources run on a spectrum. On one end, you have the external kind, such as money (perhaps you work hard to get a bonus) or pressure from someone else (say, a professor who wants you to do better). On the other, there are the deep internal, identity-driven prompts that underpin your goals, often called your "why". Your "why" might include a desire to be an engaged, upbeat friend or family member, or a passion for helping others.

While experts agree that your "why" is your most profound, timeless driver towards your goals, the reality is that sometimes it will feel too distant or intangible, or it just won't resonate with you, says Lewis. On those days, you want to have a variety of backups at your disposal so you and your progress don't hit a wall.

The following motivations, says Lewis, flow from external and superficial to internal and deep. See which one stirs you today, put it into action and stash the rest for the future. Ideally, you'll pull from the bottom half of the well most of the time and skim from the top half only when you really need to.

Hit the gym and you can buy that nice hoodie or expensive plant you've been eyeing.

Skip your online lecture and you have to clean the bathroom instead.

You know your eyes will be less puffy tomorrow if you lock in a solid eight hours of sleep tonight.

All your friends are following a workout programme and you're having FOMO. Use it to your advantage.

Your partner bought you a guitar for your birthday, so you should really take an hour to start learning how to play it.

Let your ambitious friend's run streak inspire your own. Think about how they get it done even when they're feeling "blah" too.

Revel in the self-control it takes to not hit snooze or to hit all your activity goals on your fitness tracker.

Exercise and eat well because you know you should. Limit drinking because you know it's not healthy. Stay on top of your weekly assignments because you know procrastinating only makes you feel more stressed.

Maybe you're totally type A and feel most accomplished when you follow a training plan precisely. Or maybe you're a spiritual, introspective thinker, and reading as many books as you can (versus skimming the news on repeat) makes you feel more connected to yourself.

Go for a run, spend an hour whipping up a nutritious dinner, get twisty on your yoga mat or write that next scene in your novel simply because you love it. Starting anything can be a battle, but once you're in it, you're in your flow. Afterwards, you feel lighter and brighter.

This should be something that brings you bliss, but it also has a deeper, often long-term purpose. You want to be a patient and present partner, so you meditate. Or you want to score your dream job straight out of uni, so you study at weekends if you have to. "Your 'why' is highly correlated with happiness", says Lewis, because acting on it gives you a sense of fulfilment. And that's what having goals is all about.